Unpredictable

People changes according to the situation but I don't change. I am quite a rigid person and I like to leave in my self. People change for his partner I don't. From my childhood till now I have crossed my hurdles in life and from all fall down I gather knowledge. Changes is something which change your base, we need improvement. Ex:- girls like tough, manly, well dress gentleman, but I don't change for any girls as a result I don`t have any partner in my life, so what If somebody love my "LOVE ME" not my packaging. What I am is what I am; it is reality and the originality. Changes are something which change you not your soul, and with the change from outside you can find any body but not your soul mate. If you change with the situation It is good for the situation but the change is the sacrifice for which you are always depressed, but If you face the situation it is more better, at least you have the satisfaction that you have listened to your heart.

My first job is not a job but a opportunity given by my collage as SIP(summer internship projects) . It started on 21 JUN 2010 and like others I am also very egger to do my job at IMRB. The previous day I return from Digha and went to the job by formals and what do I see, it is beyond my expectation. Some questioner need to get fulfilled. I tried the job to perform for 1 day and decide not to continue why? THEY GIVE VERY LESS Rs 60/ QUESTIONER THE JOB IS TO COLLECT FEEDBACK FROM INSURANCE CUSTOMER AND AGENT WHICH IS VERY DIFFICULT TO APPROACH NO KNOWLEDGE OF MINE IS GOING TO UTILISED FULL MECHANICAL JOB IT NEED LOTS OF TRAVEL SO COMPENSATION IS NOT PROVIDED THEY DONOT PROVIDE ANY DATABASE AND I HAVE TO USE MY OWN CONTACT SIZE OF QUESTIONER IS 36 PAGES AND NO BODY IS GOING TO ANSWER ME ALL THOUSE LOTS OF TIME NEEDED AND MY STUDY IS GETTING EFFECTED BEHAVIOUR OF MENTOR IS NOT UP TO THE MARK MY PERCEPTION OF DOING THE JOB AND GETTING THE WRONG JOB WHAT IS THE UTILITY OF DOING THESE, I CAN...

Focus is the word which depicts a goal and it is needed in life. It is a very common statement and after knowing that people distract from it. Take an example of a girl who is good in studies, got a good job and love a person and after getting married she sacrifice her carrier for the sake of family. It is a very common Indian scenario. My question lies here, why she had to sacrifice neither she was not dull nor was she incapable. If you have the motto of shifting your carrier path then you are a total waste, waste to the society. Why because a very few person actually got the opportunity to get some good education or job and you have wasted the chance of getting another person of entering that seat. Try to achieve the goal of your path by maintaining the others happy. It is the knowledge you have to discover because it depend upon situation where somewhat sacrifice and some collaboration from others are expected. Every body has a dream and the dream may not get fulfilled always but wa...

Reality lies where what you want you won't get that it dose not mean that you have not tried for it but there is no proper reason of not getting that. It may sound confusing but it make you strong and if you get that it is good but to absorb the failure is the main motto. A proper rational person must know to absorb the failure it focuses on the control of the emotion and can be controlled by self actualization. To develop it you need to have self control and how can it be achieved can be clarified with an example. Go to buy movie ticket of your favourite actress /actor on the first day first show and after a long queue you got the ticket and after getting that just tear it and throw in dustbin there lays the self control. It may sound like a mad person talk but it is a process of eliminating your weak spot. If you can eliminate your weak emotion your nature will to defend any failure coming in life. People always plan for the positive news but always try to plan for the negative o...

Improvement dose not mean change. Change cause variation which cause the problem in a process. Improvement is a continuous process. Improvement is mainly 2 types:- 1> Break through 2> Kyzen The main improvement is kyzen. It means small improvement and continuous. If a work was not continuous the work was not perfect. A continuous work can also help to check the previous and monitor them. If a example of JAPAN is taken the kyzen concept came from there, and one of the reason of Japan to the journey of 1ST world country from 2ND world war. In our life we need to follow kyzen because break through improvement is good to see but incurs huge cost and not continuous in nature. Kyzen is a concept which depicts a routine where improvement is a part of routine. If the life is enjoyed in a routine manner KYZEN will come automatically.

Decision is important in every phase of life. When you decide something you must be sure that it is final. Correction always insures time and money. So always take time to take a decision. Some body may feel that impromptu decision is more dynamic but it is like the proverbs “SPEED THRILLS BUT IT KILLS”. Time is the main decision making tools. When a problem arises take time, see the environment around you and make a decision which is profitable from all side, if you want you can consult it with others do it effectively and try to respect others decision. WHEN ONCE DECIDED KEEP YOURSELF FIRM AND DID NOT MAKE IT FLEXIBLE.