Reality lies where what you want you won't get that it dose not mean that you have not tried for it but there is no proper reason of not getting that. It may sound confusing but it make you strong and if you get that it is good but to absorb the failure is the main motto.
A proper rational person must know to absorb the failure it focuses on the control of the emotion and can be controlled by self actualization. To develop it you need to have self control and how can it be achieved can be clarified with an example.
Go to buy movie ticket of your favourite actress /actor on the first day first show and after a long queue you got the ticket and after getting that just tear it and throw in dustbin there lays the self control.
It may sound like a mad person talk but it is a process of eliminating your weak spot. If you can eliminate your weak emotion your nature will to defend any failure coming in life. People always plan for the positive news but always try to plan for the negative one because you don't know when they are waiting for you.
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